So this past weekend I went out with my girlfriends to this bar (I was forced totally against my will lol) and since I wasn't planning to go out I just wore what I had on that day. Tight jeans and a white tank top. I didn't know that this particular tank top was more or less completely see through because the lighting in my condo is crap. I figured this out when I was looking at the pics my friends took from that night. ANYWAYS, I was lookin rather fat. I was really self-conscious and standing there with my arms folded across my belly when this man (who happened to be really, really hot) comes up to me and was like "hey why are you hiding your beautiful body?". I didn't know what to say so I just muttered some awkward shit and went outside to have a cigarette (I know, smoking kills, I'm trying to quit). Less than a minute later he comes outside and starts talking to me. Turns out he LIKES bigger women. Wow. This came as quite a shocker to me, as I thought FA's existed only on the internet. I don't know how that makes any sense but it does in my mind.
So this fine gentleman gave me his number and I intend to probably not call him because I'm moving and am far too busy to get involved with someone right now. Plus he was way too "metro" for me (if you don't know what that means just imagine a guy who spends just as much, or more, time getting ready than the average girl).
The moral of the story is that if I try to hide my body, I'll miss out on those who genuinely appreciate it. So who want to go streaking?!
Hah, kidding. Sort of.
There are many men that like bigger women,that I wouldn't classify as FA's..
ReplyDeleteMany men like big women, although I wouldn't ciassify him as an FA either. You are not as slim as the media wants women to be and you don't have to hide that.
ReplyDeleteI bet a lot of men loved watching you in that slightly seethrough shirt. What did you wear under it?